Marriage

Patience, patience, patience!  A marriage is not about changing the one you have wed.  It's about learning to identify the things that you become irritable about and overcoming them through changing how you react to the situation. So if your spouse doesn't clean up after themself dont expect them to change unless your willing to learning how to use positive reinforcement to alter their behavior or learn to do it yourself.   Remember, you cant change someone else but you do have the control to change how you react.