Marriage

Marriage should never be about "If I give you something, then you give me that".  My husband and I joke about this all the time.  Last night he asked for some help and I said yes but if I do that then I need a back rub.  And we laugh "You give,  I give".  A happy marriage comes by allways giving to your spouse without wanting something in return.  If you both are thinking about each others needs you will all ways be giving and receiving without expecting a favor in return.